As a new year is birthed thoughts of what to do with it, how I want to show up and what I want to create roll around my brain. Each year I choose a word to help me stay connected to my vision and move me forward. Last Year’s word was E3-Envision-Engage-Express. I used it to help me dig deeper to connect with meaning and passion in a bigger way….last year was full of healing, claiming and shifting. It also helped me choose to go back to school for my Master’s degree with an eye toward some cutting edge research in Energy Medicine.
This year’s word isn’t quite ready to come forward but there is a sense of expansion and transformation…..in pretty much all areas of my life. This process I one I do every year because it works. It focuses me on what I want to create rather than what isn’t working or what I do not like and most importantly it keeps me from becoming complacent. You know the state where it’s just too much effort to actively try and change something.
How can we maximize the energy of possibility, positive change, and dreams to reality that the New Year ushers in?
The dreams we dream, the things we want, and the goals we set all have a common thread. We believe that, in the achieving/having of them, we will feel better. Our natural state of being is happiness(yes it really is!), and we are continually seeking to reclaim more of that in our lives.
Studies show that about 80% of people don’t even think about goals, 16% think about them but don’t write them down, 3% write them down but don’t review them, and 1% write them down and revisit/revise them one guess which group regularly achieves their goals. The revisiting piece is important it allows for adjusting and increases the likelihood of actually creating a schedule not just an end date for the goal.
I’m not much into formalities, no big spreadsheet, no formal computer program, no stuffy ‘should’s’ for me the word of the year is a symbol of those goals (that I have jotted down in the back of my planner and penciled in on my schedule). It’s written in my planner and hangs on the wall in my office a reminder that I am choosing to create the best version of myself, and that takes effort, conscious thought, and action.
So why do we so often sidestep our own happiness? We set huge goals without intermediate steps or don’t set goals at all, and then we take any perceived mistake and use it to beat ourselves up creating a 1 step forward and 2 steps back sort of momentum.
What if instead, you were to have a benchmark, a guiding light to help you move forward and celebrate your progress rather than magnifying your bumps?
- Things I love and want more of
- Things I don’t like and want less of
- How do I want to feel
- Now list as much as you can think of under each heading.
- Look at your lists and jot down words that embody what you want to feel and have.
- Which word feels best to you, test them out, notice how your body reacts, your mind, your emotions.
- Write down the word that feels the best.
- Put the pen down and close your eyes, imagine how you want to embody these things in your work, your relationships, your health, your environment.
- What do you want to create that will allow for more of what you are seeking?
- These are your goals.
Here is part of mine that will help shape my word this year.
Things I love and want more of
- Walks on the beach
- Connecting with family and friends
- Great conversations
- Learning new things
Things I don’t like and want less of
- Emotional drama
- People pleasing
- Swollen feet
- Sitting for long periods of time
How do I want to feel
I would love to hear what comes up for you. What is your word? Share in the comments below(, and I’ll share mine when I land on it)Read More